escape is never an option - but to run away and live another life can sometimes do the same thing - I should know - my mum did it when I was younger and now it appears that I have figured out the reality behind the illusion - you can have what ever your heart desires but often the only time is in your dreams. They aren't a bad place to travel to - certainly cheaper than other parts of the world but unless you are one of the lucky few you have even less control of your dreams than you do of your heart and life. So do as I all too often do - lie back and let it take you on the journey, float way like you are lying on the top of the ocean. Free your mind and surely the heart will follow...